If you look up the meaning of the word “mistake”, this is what you’ll find on The Free Dictionary.com: 1. An error or fault resulting from defective judgement, deficient knowledge, or carelessness. 2. A misconception or misunderstanding. When I read these definitions, I feel an instant sense of uneasiness. It’s no wonder that most of…
Archives for January 2015
How to Effectively Deal With Family and Cultural Expectations
One of the most challenging questions that I am often asked is “Where are you from?” My usual response is “Do you want the short or the long version?” The reason I find it challenging is because I consider myself a global citizen, i.e. I don’t lean towards a particular culture and my sense of…
The Most Effective Way to Improve Your Luck
We live in a culture that is obsessed with celebrity lifestyle. The media is inundated with images and news of the glamorous, and often times controversial, lives of stars and other accomplished individuals. While being exposed to this kind of material, it is tempting to label these people as “lucky” or “blessed” because of their…
Why Settling for Less is One of the Worst Things You Can Do
Although I’m an agreeable person, when it comes to changing my perspective on the things that are closest to my heart, I’m not easily convinced. While growing up, my family labeled this trait as “stubbornness” or having rigid standards, especially in my collectivist culture where being compliant (READ: a doormat) is a preferred feminine quality. But…
