Words are powerful. When used consciously, words open the doorway to happiness, profit and creative satisfaction. Using the right ones can have positive impact on the lives of other people. Learn why your words matter and the steps you can take to upgrade the quality and range of your words. (Estimated reading time: 6 minutes)
“Words are powerful. Words change lives. Words and ideas change the world.”— Bryant H. Mcgill
As a writer and reader, I have a natural love for words.
I perceive every word to be like a unique shade of color, which can be used to paint all kinds of images on the canvas of our imagination.
While pictures can capture poignant moments in a story, it’s only words that can bring out the rich narratives in its entirety.
I also take words pretty seriously – when used improperly, they can cause a lot of pain and destruction. Like a double-edged sword, our words can be wielded as a force for good or evil.
Both Hitler and Martin Luther King were powerful orators who moved people with their words, but one was driven by a dark intent, while the other was driven by light.
To move towards the light, we need to develop a “word-consciousness” – a sensitivity to the impact that our words have on others.
However, with the advent of social media and smart phones, brevity and a casual, airy and breezy form of interaction has become the norm. We think that using slang and swear words makes us look ‘cool’ and ‘hip’, when really it’s a sign of a lack of creativity and laziness.
The news that we ingest has increasingly moved away from typographic-focused press sites such as the New York Times to the image-based reporting style of Buzzfeed. We now prefer our news to be short and sweet with lots of imagery and catchy sound bites.
I recently completed a popular online copy writing course where the experts encouraged us to dumb down our language when writing so that we can sound more relatable to people. As someone who likes the “proper” way of speaking and writing, I think it’s sad that we now live in a global culture where using tasteful and carefully chosen words is considered to be stuffy and archaic.
Call me old-fashioned, but I miss the thoughtful articulation, grace and class from the yesteryears. Whenever I listen to interviews of Audrey Hepburn, Princess Diana, Cary Grant and Jacqueline Kennedy, I can’t help but admire how they paced themselves and enunciated each word with care.
Now some of you might argue that these mannerisms don’t reflect on your individuality or your cultural background. While I respect everyone’s unique style of communication, the truth is that if you want to have a major impact and influence on others, you’ll need to master the art of choosing and clearly articulating the right words to express yourself.
As a verbal virtuoso, you’ll be able to make great strides in your career and personal life. Strong and effective communication will open the doorway to happiness, profit and creative satisfaction.
Just think of all the literary giants such as Shakespeare, Jane Austen, Mark Twain, J.K. Rowling and Ernest Hemingway. Each one of these revered wordsmiths have their own distinct flavor of written expression, but what they have in common is a talent of using words to create vivid imagery, evoking a strong emotions within us.
Or consider dynamic speakers such as John F Kennedy, Maya Angelou, Winston Churchill, Susan B Anthony and Barack Obama. Along with their perfect tone of voice, they spoke words that stirred our souls and inspired us to take action towards making the world a better place to live in.
But why is it that words matter so much to us? It’s because words are heavily laced with meaning and energy. Physicists like Nikola Tesla and Einstein have actually proven that thoughts, feelings and emotions each have a distinct energetic vibration and play an important role in shaping our reality.
Dr. Masaru Emoto, who conducted the famous water crystal experiments, proved that words can have a transformative impact on a molecular level. When words like “joy, love, gratitude” were taped on water containers, frozen and observed under a microscope, the crystals looked like beautiful snowflakes. When words like “hate and fear” were used, the crystals appeared to be asymmetrical and disfigured.
You can feel the power of words whenever you pray, listen to the lyrics of a moving song, read poetry or exchange words of love and affection with another. Being immersed in this verbal flow will instantly boost your personal vibration. On the other hand, when we utter words of anger, hate and disgust, we can sense the disconnection from the light within us and our energy plummeting to lower frequencies.
You don’t need to be a literary scholar or go to finishing school to write and speak well. You can upgrade the quality and range of your words by incorporating these simple practices into your daily life:
1. Expand your vocabulary: Total vocabulary size varies greatly from person to person but typically, a person uses approximately 5,000 words in speech, and double that in writing. A college-educated native speaker can have a vocabulary as large as 80,000 words! Why the big difference? Because college graduates have been exposed to more words and tend to be comfortable with the idea of learning and synthesizing new information.
We can mimic this behavior by engaging in activities that’ll grow our vocabulary and increase our fluency. The easiest way to learn new words is by reading high-quality material, but we can also listen to audio books or download free apps that feature new words every day.
2. Appreciate the art of language: The various rhythms and flow of speaking and writing make it almost like an art form. That’s why people love books that have been carefully laced with compelling descriptors or show-stopping movie dialogues (“here’s lookin’ at you kid!”). Just as how we appreciate a good painting, sculpture or a play, we can train ourselves to acknowledge the perfect usage of words, especially if they have an emotional impact on us and those around us. You can become a patron of languages by soaking in the beauty of a well-written book, poem, movie script or the lyrics of song.
3. Choose your words carefully: Our words are the only medium through which we can connect with others and convey our authentic feelings and thoughts. Our friends, family and partner have no other way of understanding us besides what we express to them. For this reason, we should be thoughtful about the things that we say to others. All of us have blurted out hurtful things in anger, which we have later regretted.
The truth is that better and more appropriate words flow through us when feel stable and centered within. So the next time you open your mouth or write an email, take a deep breath to clear out your mind, check in with your emotions, and clarify the intent of your communication and what effect you would like it to have on the person at the other end.
4. Protect yourself from harmful words: Vulgarity and swear words can offend some people, including me. I remember attending a stand-up comedy show of a famous American comedian. His act ended up being a bit too crass for me and I had to walk out. It was filled with sexual innuendo and expletives, which overshadowed the humor, in my opinion.
We can come across people with an offensive and aggressive manner of speaking, which could disturb our peace of mind. If there’s someone in your life who puts you down with their words, consider building some boundaries or cutting them out of your life. Words are potent, and having someone spew words like venom on you will surely mess with your mind.
Words make unknowable concepts, knowable to us – all stories, ideas and creative insights are birthed through words. Like a dormant seed, words will nourish it with the right context, meaning and purpose; ultimately, it helps us express our soul’s essence and connect with our human nature.
All my best on your journey,
Question for you: Do you believe that your words matter? How conscious are you about the words that you use in your daily life?
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